Marriage and Clingy-ness

Lets talk about marriage and how sweet it is shall we? It's a great thing marriage is when you find the right person to confide in but now lets talk about clingy-ness the one thing that causes marriage to kind of shift away.

Clingy-ness is not good for a marriage it brings all kinds of things such as jealousy, selfishness and many other things. It can turn a beautiful process into a beautiful nightmare and tragedy.

Marriage is suppose to be built on trust but if there is no trust then guess what there is nothing there it turns into a repeating nightmare that you just want to escape from and have fears that you cannot.

You can become broken if and start to crumble as your trying to hold it all together there should never be selfishness in marriage and if there is trust then you should never have to worry if your spouse still wants you and loves you.

Being broken is hard while trying to hold up your head and make sure nothing is falling apart. It is a tough job when one person is pulling the whole thing because the other person has gave up. It can and will destroy you as a person and end up  tearing you down. Sometimes if it is like this it's best to leave the marriage and rebuild. Other times it's best to communicate and tell the other how you feel or it will keep happening.

Communication is key in any relationship, don't get mad don't judge just listen to what the other one say and nine times out of ten it will make it better.

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Stress relief

The way I release my stress would be taking photos, playing video games, writing, cooking, fishing and whatever else makes me happy.

Stress is caused by millions of things say bills are due and your paycheck is short or say that there is problems going on with your family and your unsure what to do so you sit there thinking of ways to get by and you finally find away but yet your relieved a little but there is still stress. Don't worry it will all be okay in the end everything happens for a reason so do what makes you happy life is extremely short and to stress and worry. Try to patch things up and make things work it will all be okay sometimes you have to lose people to get to where you need to be so don't worry it will all be okay.

Ways to relieve stress:

Work out 

Draw

Create Crafts 

Cook

Take a hike 

Go Fishing

Hang out with friends

Work on things

Do whatever you need to do to make you happy and don't worry it will all be okay 

Love...

Love can be the greatest thing in the world or it can be the most painfullest thing ever.
Love has a lot of trust that needs to be builded but when its broken down it takes a while
 to gain it back. There is lots of things that need to happen in a relationship to even be classified as a relationship because it is a commitment either way you go at it. You date a person to marry. If they don't tell you everything then you barely know them and at times it will end up tearing you apart and wrecking everything you've tried to work to keep together. Let the person know how you feel and everything before so they know how to handle it and take it. Don't try to hide it and then let them find out. It destroys their trust along with everything they've tried to keep and work so hard for.
One more thing don't say things you never mean and never I mean never hurt them always try to protect them don't let them slip through your fingertips because you probably will never get them back and they probably will never trust you.

Fella's buy your girl things, take her out treat her like a queen and talk about your feelings and everything let it all come out, let them know what you really think and how you feel.

Ladies tell your fellas how you feel, don't hide anything, treat them like a king and always try to help them during their weakest moment.

LOVE WILL NEVER WORK IF YOU DON'T WORK TOGETHER.. IT WILL JUST FAIL AND MAKE EVERYTHING COLLAPSE AND ALL FALL APART. ~ I know for experience

Depression

Sometimes depression can be so severe that you yourself cannot tell. It takes someone around you to notice how bad it is.

You believe your being normal and acting normal but you’re really not. Your thinking to yourself that everything is okay as your trying to keep it all together you slowly break and crack as your crying on the inside and pretending to smile on the out.

You just want to cry, and cry and cry not even move, not even be bothered. Your hurting so much you're getting thoughts and they are not good. You kind of want it all to end but your trying to hang on. Your emotions are everywhere, and you cannot control it.

Everyone notices how you push yourself away. You barely eat, you barely want to be noticed. It’s like your just there, like you don't matter, like your worthless and useless and everything is passing you by.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! There is many of people out there that feels like this, I even feel and felt like this most of my life till now. No matter how much your comforted no matter how many times people tell you; you matter, they love you, your more than this it still hits, and it hits harder than they know, and it makes it worse.

It's all a process sometimes it gets better other times it comes back worse but there are many people out here that feels this way and there are many people who are a shoulder to cry on.

There are also people out here who is willing to listen and help and those people know how to help and has been down this road one time in life and those are the people who are our Superhero.      

Fever Blister... AKA Cold sores and other health.

Anyone can get a fever blister or a cold sore. There is no way around it. They normally pop up if you have a sour or upset stomach. they also come up when you are sick. There is no reason to be embarrassed by it it happens and it is apart of you and it is what makes you you.

There are way to treat it. 

LEAVE IT ALONE DON'T TOUCH IT IT WILL SPREAD!!!!

You can boil or microwave water and then add epsom salt just a little to it. Let it cool off some then take a wash cloth or rag and dab it in the solution and apply it to the sore or blister. If it is open then it may sting and burn but it will get better. You can also drink it but it will make you poop because it helps clean your system.

Blistex works but takes weeks and weeks at a time but it still works.

 Lysine heals it in about a week or two and it doesn't even take that long for it to disappear. 

You can take a tea bag and boil it and apply it to the sore but squeeze it out some.

Cranker X along with Blistex works also but it is sticky. 

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Ways to help you poop 

• Drink coca-cola 
• Eat greasy foods 
• Eat green leafy foods 
• I enjoy junk food lol and I enjoy cheese 
• Cut back on cheese 
• take laxative 
• Take stool softeners if you have trouble once a day should work 
• Suppositories 

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PERIODS 

• Periods are the worst you hurt and hurt and hurt and bleed and bleed and bleed.
• You can take advil, tylenol, pampers and any other ones that's out there to help
• Stay warm because that helps 
• rub your belly and hold the uterus
• Eat whatever you want 
• Chocolate can help but its just an emotional need
• Heating pads help with cramps 
• just relax
• exercise helps it supposedly also 
• I enjoy sugar on my period 

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Blogging

Blogging is not easy once so ever! You do not know what to talk about, you do not know what to say, you don't even know what people like and do not so you just have to take a hit at it cause everyone is different and some people like what others do not. You can talk about anything really and give your opinion and not get made fun of. You can also just talk about your own life and give advice and just talk about nothing and people will find you interesting and its pretty cool that people would do that.

Life after baby; Postpartum.

There is a lot of things that women go through after having a baby that some people do not understand.
We have a lot to go through from pain to depression to everything under they sun.

There is a lot of things that we try to cope with and hide like the fact that in postpartum depression the baby can feel like it's not yours, you may gain suicidal thoughts, everything feels like its going wrong that you are horrible and start blaming yourself for everything. There are also hidden feelings and emotions you have that you did not know you have. You can also say things you don't mean.

I just want to say, it's all going to be okay, you have came along way. You got this! you have a little one who needs you. You have a reason to keep going even if it all feels like its going to end, like the whole world is falling on your shoulders you have to push through and keep strong for your little one! It's hard trying to wake up each day and you want to give up I know. I have a newborn and a 1 year old. It's a struggle but you just have to keep moving. A support system is the best thing to have no matter who it is. Someone to talk to is really important and helps. Exercising or doing something you love helps to. I have had and still having battles and wanted to give up but I can not because I have two babies depending on me and not letting me give up. You can also go to your doctor and tell them about it and they will give you antidepressants. You can also go to a therapist, Don't worry many women go through this and some just don't feel comfortable talking about it.

There are others out there that are just like us, you are not alone please feel free to reach out to someone and talk about everything, it helps!

Speak Up; Speak Out! YOU MATTER! WE ALL DO!

                Sometimes in this life there will be people that will rub you the wrong way that will try to take advantage of you and use you till you have nothing left. Speak up don’t let people run over you and tell them what they want you to do. You are your own person. You are human and you can do whatever you please to make you happy and don’t worry about others. They will do all types of things trying to bring you down to the point you are about as low was they are and they will tend to try to hold you there and bully you to make you feel like you have done something wrong when you haven’t done a thing. When something doesn’t feel right and you dislike what’s happening don’t be afraid to speak up and voice your opinion. They will say that doesn’t matter but truthfully it does. People will bully you and talk about you till they have you feeling low. So low that you feel like they are lower than them but don't be like them. Take a stand and speak up and speak out. Don't talk about them because then you will be like them but you have to be better and hold your head high and proud for where you are no matter rich or poor, Black or White, Yellow or whatever you are. You are a person and you matter even when you feel like you don't.

What's my happiness?

It's being with the ones I love and doing what I love like
 riding four wheeler's, hunting, mudding, Fishing, Riding bikes
Writing stories to poems drawing and hiking, listening to music
 but really its doing anything from planting to doing college work, making crafts, hanging with my family that's what I love to do and what settles me and makes me happy.

Finding your happiness is important because your happiness matters even when you feel like it doesn't. You need to stay positive no matter what happens. Try to see the good things instead of bad and if it's people trying to bring you down. Remove yourself from them because they have something wrong or been put down and try to bring everyone else down with you. Try removing all negativity out of your life and not getting upset when things don't go your way. Sometimes you just have to do this to become a better person and be happy.