Relationships

Some people think just because the sex is good that it is going to keep you in a relationship and honestly that is not the case. There is so much more than sex that is needed in a relationship and if the relationship does not have that then what is the point?

 Love and respect and how you treat each other is what makes you stay or want to stay in a relationship but in the end people get tired of waiting for others to do the right thing and do the things that they need. People get tired of waiting for you to do what you have to. 

A lot of people can peer into the relationship and see how unhappy someone is just by talking to them and the way they hold themselves. If a person is not happy in a relationship, they will end up lying to themselves and others thinking that something is going to work out but then again, it normally doesn't and if it does, then often times it is to late. 

A person will end up getting tired and will end up looking for something or someone better elsewhere. If she has to ask you more than once to do something and you bring up excuses or reasons why you cannot do it, there is someone out there just waiting for a woman to ask for help. There is someone out there ready to do whatever is needed or wanted. 

So if you have a keeper, make sure you do the things she needs to keep her cause once we are tired, we a tired and once we get to the point we no longer want to be in a relationship then no matter how much we love you, we can always go even if it hurts us. 

So be sure to check on them, show them that you are there and care for them. Check on their mental health and just talk to them. That could help out with a lot of things and if they ask you to do something remember, one day anything can happen to them and then when you want to go back and do it you cannot because they are gone.

Empty Promises

 After awhile, a person becomes numb to empty promises. When a person say and promises they are going to do something but they end up not doing it and your expectations lowers and lowers every promise that they do not do, you end up getting use to them saying they are going to do it and end up doing nothing in which you end up getting your hopes up and end up being crushed making it so you have to end up doing it and making plans of having to fix what they said they were going to do. 

Another thing is being said but it is so empty. Getting fed up with everything and eventually you end up taking over and trying to do everything without letting the other know until it is done because expecting them to do it just makes you feel empty. 

Having expectations of a person or the man of the house just for them to not even hold their weight but come up with every excuse and reason why they shouldn't while you juggle 36 different things from your kids, to bills to making sure the house is good to making sure your health is good to making sure everything is working great and correctly to making sure that everything is working and going smoothly and if something happens you end up trying to fix it. 

This causes a lot of sleepless nights, a lot of silent cries and just a lot of strain on your body and health trying to be this picture perfect but in reality it just tears you down to the point you no longer want to do it anymore. 

You no longer want to be in a marriage where everything looks great with a fake smile juggling everything including the empty promises and emotions along with the weight of the man or woman you supposedly love who promised to do everything they can and said they would but only does the bare minimum or none at all leaving it all for you to end up doing because we all know they are not. 

This can be projected on men or it can be projected on women. This can be a perspective of anyone because anyone can leave broken promises. I know this feeling all to well and honestly, it is a tiring feeling. I done cried all the tears I can along with I done tried, I done screamed, I done showed so much how it bothers me just for nothing to happen but the excuse of I'm to tired or I'll do it later and it gets done months later with the "I forgot." even though I just brought it up and brought it up again and don't let me say I have to do something because it turns into they will do it and guess what, the same thing happens.