Medicine of a tired spirit: Jealousy and Envy

 Jealousy and Envy are the two most blockers in the world. Being jealous of something that a person has or can get can end up allowing you to miss something that you were suppose to have.

 Being angry or upset because a person has something will not allow you to grow and get what you need. You never know what a person has went through nor their journey or the things they had to go through to get where they are today. 

Life is hard and life always will knock you down to the point you feel like giving up and not go anymore and when you start looking around, you can start to notice that people have different things.

 A lot of people are getting the things you dreamed of and it feels like you are never going to get it and you keep working hard towards it and all kinds of things starts happening and you feel like you are loosing grip and the more you look around and the more you see someone else getting something new or someone else getting things before you and it starts to make you feel like there is no reason to keep going and you want to give up and you become mad, jealous and envy them because of where they are or what they have.

 Yes, this feeling happens to a lot of people but you are not suppose to feel this way because it can end up potentially blocking your blessing and stop you from focusing and keep going on to where you are suppose to be. 

If you give up, then you will end up having to restart the process and not everything is going to come to you as quick as you want them. It is going to take time and it has to be the right time for you to get it. It is going to take a lot of hard work and dedication for you to get to where you want to be in life and giving up is never an option. You may have to stop and take breaks and change your game plan but eventually, it is all going to work out. 

You are also going to have to change your thinking and stop being negative towards everyone and everything. It is all a mindset and once you change it, things will start to get better.

Marriage and relationships

 

Marriage and relationships are commitment. It is loving each other unconditionally through the ups and downs. It is being there for one another when things are not looking up and helping them. It is not a one sided thing. It is 50/50. Their problems are your problems and your problems are theirs. 

If you are not ready for commitment and helping each other of if you are to busy to notice when the other person needs you and is struggling while you are out doing your own thing, let the person go. It is not worth them wasting their time, love, care and drowning in issues expecting you to come along and help them when in actuality you're not going to. 

If someone else has your attention let the person you are holding on to go so that they can find someone that is for them instead of being led on thinking that you actually want them and want to spend your life with them. 

People who genuinely cares and loves you ends up planning their whole life with you. They want to experience it all with you but if you don't want to spend your life with them and be everything they need in life and all you do make excuses all the time, blame, assume accuse them and make them feel less than a person, you don't deserve them and they do not deserve the treatment that you put them through. 

They deserve better, they deserve to be loved and be cherished. They do not deserve to suffer from you because you aren't ready. They do not deserve to be broken because you are broken, have trust issues, jealousy, narcist, Stockholm syndrome, have been called out and confronted because you are doing things that they know you are doing but you are trying to pretend you're not doing it and try to make it seem like the person is crazy and keep throwing off on them because you do not want to admit the truth.

 Gut feelings never lie. Trust me, we can tell when something isn't right and things are off. 

Sometimes we just let it go until we can no longer take it and other times we try to handle it right on the spot. Just sit back and watch, karma is quick.