Hang Over Smart patches

Do you enjoy drinking on the weekend but dread the hangover you have Monday morning? You do not have to! These patches are made just for that! Maybe the classic just do not work for you, do not worry there are high performance ones that helps sober you up quickly.


You pretty much put these on 30 minutes before you start drinking so it gets in your system and it works great. I highly recommend these while on vacation, partying or even just weekend drinking.

These should be placed on dry areas such as the shoulder, arm, stomach and butt check. You pretty much leave it on all night and you will feel way better in the morning without that groggy hangover feeling.

These are small enough to fit in your pocket and wallet without any issues. The packages are resealable so that they can stay fresh and have a lot of good benefits. They are gluten free and vegan which is a win win for a lot of people.

Enjoy your summer with any booze you choose and don’t worry about the hangover because using these, there will not be one.

Drink responsibly and do not drink and drive!

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Potty training

 Let me start by saying, potty training is not for the weak. Potty training for some is easier than others and sometimes the child just is not ready for it and sometimes they just do not understand nor can grasp it.

Don't worry, my kid he has autism and it took him until he was about 7 to fully grasp and potty train. For starters, it is best to start potty training at about 1-3 years old or when they are about that way they can grasp it and understand it a little more.

 I would honestly start with a little potty and try sitting them on it so that way they can get the feel of the potty.

 One thing you can do is kind of figure out their potty schedule and try to get them to go on the potty. Another thing you can do is try rewarding them for pottying and getting them to go in which this kind of worked with my other two. 

Another way was we kind of skipped the little potty training potty and went straight to the big potty and that worked too but there could be a chance your child is scared of the potty and will need  comfort and a lot of talking through. 

But as always you know your child better than anyone and if they are not ready to potty train then it is okay. Don't beat yourself up over it, it just takes time. 

Potty training potties, toilet seats and stairs here! 

Mowrator S1 Mower and equipment

These mowers are a lot of run to mow with. Yes, you can control them with a remote kind of like an RC car. They have mowers for 4wd and 2wd in which is good because I know a lot of terrains are not the same and the grass can make it thick and get it stuck.

The Mowrator s1 4wd can climb up to 37-75% slope of steep climate and is best for fields and all grass conditions. It cuts grass to 1.5-4.3 in.


The MowratorS1 2wd is made for the modern backyard and cuts grass to 1.8-4.6in.

Depending on the size of your acre depends on the size battery you are needing. The 12Ah does .75 acres per charge and the 18ah does 1.125 acres per charge.

Worried about the standard range of the remote control connectivity and reach? Don’t worry, it reaches about 1300 ft (400 meters away) but it is recommend that to safely operate it would be about 300 ft (100 meters) away but if you don’t like that, you can always adjust the range for it to your liking.

They also just do not do mowers, they do have attachments for the Mowers that allows it to do different jobs through the seasons. They have glass collectors where you cut the grass and can use the grass collector to pick up the trimmings. They have a leaf vacuum which is great for the fall and allows you to have a nice clean yard. They also have a scope and a mulcher.

I highly recommend these especially in the seasons because it save you from having to go out in the hot sun and mow your yard especially if it is to hot and if you are on certain medications to where you have to avoid the sun. Another good thing is it save your back so you do not hurt it trying to clean up the yard and it will end up saving you hours because you can do it all at once without having to redo it or take breaks. You can actually sit down and not have to push mow the yard in the heat in which I love about this.

This thing is easy and simple to use and can be used on all kinds of grass, no matter how high or thick. You will no longer have to worry about running up on snake and not seeing it since you won’t be anywhere near it with this remote controlled mower. There is so much that this thing can do and honestly it is perfect. This can make you feel like a kid again driving an RC car but this time, it is an adult toy and a lawn mower.

Use discount code lovely124 for 5% off! 

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Ways to get a house!

 A way to get an affordable house is to wait until the states have a tax sale, call down to your local tax office and see when they have their tax sale and then go and get one of those. You can also find delinquent tax deeds and pay for those and then they should become yours but in the state of SC the delinquent has 6 months to pay you back but often times they do not or cannot. 

 If you do not like to do it that way, you can always buy some land and get a tiny house or a pop up house or even a mobile home and go that route. It is best to find land that has water and septic already hooked up or you may have to pay for that but hey, it is cheaper than having to spend $200,000 for a brand new house. This way allows you to save money until you can get better especially in this economy. 

Another way is you can try to find rent to own places. I know a lot of people do not do these anymore but you can always ask, you will never know if you do not ask. Our home was going to be rent to own but due to conditions of it, the age and the previous owner sold it to the guy we bought it from as a bundle with other rentals, the bank would not allow it to be until he paid for it to be undone and brought his lawyers in to help fix it. 

If you happen to find a mobile home lot with used or repo mobile homes, they some times have package deal where you can get a mobile home and land too for one price and or you can pretty much rent to own it until it is paid off. 

 Some of these places, you do not need credit just your down payment and that is all. I know a place in Columbia/Darlington South Carolina that does this and it is called Southern Choice Homes. Some of these places also have land for sale and most of them do have septic and water hook ups all you have to do is get a trailer and drop it on it. 

If you are looking for mobile homes for sale or rent, I recommend Mobile Home Village because it pretty much shows you mobile homes for sale and rent everywhere and every state. There is some hope. 

DreameShort: Drama TV from Mobile App

If you are looking for a mobile app that is kind of like Tubi but not like tubi that allows you to stream shows and dramas, check out DreameShort. They have all different kinds of shows and episodes to choose from. These shows are short drama soap opera shows that are broken up into different episode so it leave you on cliff hangers.

It has all different kinds of new shows that are recommended by different viewers and it has a lot of hot and popular shows. This app is free but they also have a Dreame Pass where you can subscribe and pay and get ad free viewing, have your shows at 1080p and unlock even more Early Access dramas and other bonuses that you get. If you pay for it, it unlocks a lot more shows for you so you can watch all that you want. You can get a week pass or an annal pass. If you subscribe and then decide that it is not for you, you can cancel anytime which is nice.

You can also earn rewards that also gives you bonuses which is also useful and helpful. This allows you to watch your shows or start a new series from pretty much anywhere since it is phone and tablet compatible. You can also watch it on chomebooks or anywhere that has a google store or an Apple app store so this is any Andriod device such as phones and tablets or any Apple device such as Iphone or Macbook, Ipad.

If you are not from the US, do not worry! This app works in US, UK, Australia, Canada, Spain, Portugal, Germany and France and other countries which is cool!

Check out the website here!

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Childhood trauma

 I suffer from a lot of anxiety. I also have a hormone imbalance that plays a factor in it along with having to attempt to be perfect as a child. It was like I had to please my father growing up. I had to do everything he said to a tee to make sure that he was not mad or going to yell at us. 

 Everything had to be done his way or the way he wanted and my mother would cover up for us if something happened or went wrong. Truthfully, their marriage still does not feel the greatest nor the happiest. 

Going to visit them every so often feels like its in shambles and everything is rocky because its like you cannot be your own person there, you have to be of his image and the way he wants and a lot of things he disapproves of like piercings and tattoos and hair dying and certain hair styles along with sexuality and he talks about people when they are overweight and pretty much not doing things he prefers or if someone is not working.  I in fact hid my sexuality and my mother even questioned about it in which, I am bi-sexual and my bother he is either bi-sexual or gay we cannot determine for sure but we are leaning on the bi-sexual but still. 

My mother is and always was an accepting woman and still is. She does not care as she always states its your life, do what you please. 

 Growing up, I would spend a lot of time outside instead of in the house because it was like everything I did was a displease. I would play with my toys but at a certain time, we had to clean it up so that it would not be everywhere when he got home even though we were still playing with them. To keep tension down and keep everyone happy.

I felt like my childhood trauma plays a big emotional abuse factor in my life because now, I try my best to make sure everything is squared away and I tried to people please to make them happy when they are irrelevant to me. 

They don't even matter in my life and I have learned that it does not matter what they say or think, this is my life and they do not have to be in it. 

I do not have to be surrounded by people that tries to munch off of me and take everything from me, I definitely do not need anyone judgmental of me and expects me to change my life to please them.

 I definitely do not need to live my life in their foot steps or try to be this tippy toppy person that I am not. You never know how much your trauma will eventually change your life and causing issues to occur to the point that it suffocates you and tries to force you into this unhappy person to where you are trying to please others and make sure that nothing is wrong. Well nothing can be right all the time and life throws things your way to help you grow even if you are not ready for it. 

Not everyone is suppose to be in your life, and you cannot please everyone so choose wisely on how you go about this. 

I would also often panic and have anxiety attacks over being a mom and over thinking and everything else when in fact, I am not a perfect mom. If you or anyone comes over, yes there are going to be toys laying around, there are going to be little hand prints from paint in certain places, there are going to be memories in my home whether it is on paper or on the walls. There are going to be little things here and there. Clothes may not be folded, the clothes hamper may be full, the counters may have stuff on them but I am not a bad mom because of this. 

My kids are loved, my kids have clothes on their backs, they are eating and never go hungry, they are playing, they are living. They are not growing up and suffering like I did. They do not have to worry about this or that or being fussed at for even wanting to play or just because they are kids. My kids gets everything they need. 

My kids do not have to suffer like I did. If there is something wrong or they are sick, they go on to the doctor unlike I did. I often feel like I am not a good enough mother. I often feel like I did not do enough I battle with myself a lot because of this but the truth is, I am a great mother. My kids are getting the things that they need the most. They are getting the time, the care, the love that they need. 

My kids do know their chores and knows when it is time to clean up everything. They also help around the house. They do not have the constant fear of doing something wrong. They do not have the anxiety that I went through nor the pain and suffering. My views are way different then my parents views.

 I do not hit my child just because they did something wrong. I do not hit my child at all. A child is a child, yes you discipline them but you can do so without yelling at them and getting in their face. You do not need to be hitting and beating on them. You can put them in time outs and take things away from them such as the things that they enjoy such as a tablet or TV time or video games. 

A child did not cause you the bad day that you had at work. A child is not someone you come home and relieve your anger on just because they did something at home and you had a bad day at work. I went through this multiple times and honestly it sucks because when you are a kid, you don't know why they are like this and then you are trying to grow and learn wrong from right and it is like everything you do is wrong. 

My dad, now that I am a mom myself tried to push his way of parenting on me and that went right out the window. I would rather my kid actually stay in a kids place instead of being beat and being forced to do things quicker and earlier. 

My kids also has autism and its like he did not understand at first and only was trying to push things he was taught but then after awhile, he started coming around and realizing the way he was taught was wrong along with the way he parented and now he does not bother giving parenting advice. 

 My mother also noted that he was always at work at the time of us growing up so he does not fully understand and grasp being a parent. He would go to work, come home frustrated with his job, find out we did something wrong and then beat us with his belt and then from there he would eat, go to bed and repeat. 

It is okay to be different in this world. It is not okay to be forced to feel like you have to be similar and have to be the same as everyone else. It is okay to be yourself. If you have suffered some of the things that I have went through then you know how hard it is to try to make friends. You know how easy it is to withdraw from people and isolate yourself. You know what it is like to try to people please due to fear and anxiety in which can also lead to guilt.

 Going through any kind of trauma will change a person. Going through any kind of abuse will also change a person. It can also bring a lot of anger as the person grows up and can cause a lot of PTSD because of what they been through and honestly, it is okay to feel the way you feel. 

 You have every right to feel that way but in the end, do not let it stop you from becoming the person you want to be even though it will be hard, you have to forgive them and grow from that to become better. Don't sit around with built up anger and don't let it run you and rule you. You can grow from it, it is going to take time but in the end, you never know who you may end up becoming. 

Honda CRV 1997 PVC B hose

 If you happen to drive a Honda CRV 1997, you know a lot of parts are now discontinued because of the age. You also know how hard it is to find the exact fit or a part because of this. All we knew was we blew a hose and needed a replacement.

 We did not know that it was going to be difficult to find one hose. The hose that we needed was the PVC B hose. 

The part number is 11856-P3F-000 Tube B, PCV and having to fight google with trying to find one and trying to figure it out without knowing what the part was called ended up having to take the google lens and google image and finding it, we eventually found what it was called just to be told it is discontinued.

After running to the part store not once but twice trying to find a hose for it, we found out the hose size is a 5/16th hose. The 5/8ths is a little to big. 

We also found out that if you are looking for the hose it is called a fuel line hose. We ended fighting with it for about 30 minutes trying to squeeze the nozzle in the hose and it worked, no more leaks. So if you are looking for a PCV hose get a 5/16th fuel line hose.

 If you happen to get a roll of this, you can end up tripping it down to the size you need and using the rest for later.