10 days until my birthday (1/27)

I have 10 days until my 29th birthday on 1/27, and as I approach this next year of my life, I find myself reflecting on how much I’ve already experienced and overcome. It’s easy to focus on what’s still unfinished, but when I really pause, I realize how many accomplishments I carry with me.

I have a loving family that supports me, and I am the parent of three incredible children who bring meaning, purpose, and joy into my life every single day. They remind me of my strength, my resilience, and the kind of love that makes even the hardest moments worth pushing through. I have so much to be proud of and endlessly thankful for.

I know that my healing journey may be long, and there are still chapters ahead that will require patience, courage, and grace. But I’m not walking this road alone. I’m grateful for a compassionate care team that believes in me and helps guide me forward, even when the path feels uncertain or heavy.

I may not have a clear career goal or a defined path laid out for my future, and for a long time I thought that meant I was behind or falling short. Now, I’m learning to release that pressure. Right now, it’s okay not to have everything figured out. Growth doesn’t always follow a straight line, and purpose can exist even in the pause.

As I step into 29, I’m choosing to honor where I am, to give myself credit for how far I’ve come, and to trust that clarity will come in its own time. This season of my life may not look like I once imagined, but it is still meaningful, full, and worthy.

I got a hysteroscopy & Endometrial Ablation

 
Let me tell you, this is going to hurt when you first get it done. It will burn and you will be in pain but the day after surgery it does not hurt as bad anymore.

 You will be throbbing and on pelvic rest until 2 weeks. Honestly this was the best option I went. I got mine done January 14th and I feel way better. I do not feel like my uterus is super heavy anymore nor is there a lot of pressure.

 I could not get the hysterectomy even if I wanted to because my bladder and uterus and probably part of my bowels are fused together with scar tissue and the doctor said it was risky for him to do that and I had a possibility of dying 

They also said of the pain and stuff gets bad again I am going to have a second surgery that includes going through groin area and go into the uterus into blood vessels and stop the blood from going into certain parts that are no longer need. 

I also had issues with my heart rate because when I woke up it was 44/50 and it kept going up and dropping. It was rough but once it came back up I felt better. 

I did not bleed as much with this operation only spotted a little bit here and there at the beginning however the 3rd day is like a light period.

I am expected to have a few periods to help get it out the rest of the way but we are not 100% sure I well have a period or not anymore after that. 

The doctor is also afraid that the Adenomyosis is on the uterus tissue and he could not get it all so we are looking out for that also after recovery. I also have PCOS on top of this that is makes things difficult.

Honestly this surgery was the best thing I could do. I feel way better already and my uterus does not feel heavy like it did unless I have to pee then my bladder makes it heavy. 

I have no incision to worry about the only thing is I am on risk of infection for 2 weeks reason why I got a post op appointment but other than that taking it easy. 

I do not have any incisions to worry about but I do have an infection risk until everything goes back to normal.

Singer Sewing Machine

There’s something special about having a tool that makes creating feel easy, and that’s exactly why I love the Singer sewing machine. It doesn’t matter if you’re fixing a hem, customizing your clothes, or bringing a brand‑new idea to life — this machine keeps up with you. It’s smooth, reliable, and doesn’t fight you while you work. You sit down, thread it, and suddenly you’re in your zone.

What I like most is how it turns small moments into wins. That pair of jeans you thought you had to throw away? Saved. That project you’ve been putting off because it felt too complicated? Done in an afternoon. Singer machines have this way of making you feel capable, even on days when you’re tired or distracted. They’re built for real people who just want something that works.

If you’ve been thinking about getting one, take this as your sign. A Singer sewing machine isn’t just another gadget — it’s a little boost of confidence sitting on your table, ready whenever you are. Your next project is waiting, and this is the perfect way to start.

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Singer Beginner Sewing Machine

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Modlily; Clothing made for everyone!

Modlily has amazing deals on trendy dresses, casual tops, flattering swimwear, cozy hoodies, stylish denim, underwear, bras, shirts, tanktops, dresses, fitness wear, pants, and more. It’s the perfect time to refresh your wardrobe without overspending. 

Their sizes ranges from Small-6xl so they have something for everyone including us plussize women.

Whether you’re shopping for everyday outfits, vacation looks, or seasonal must-haves, Modlily’s sales make fashion affordable and fun. Grab your favorites now before sizes and styles sell out!

 They have all kinds of different things. They have a sale going on Buy 3 get one free in which I love this.  

Change up your wardrobe using this link! Click here! 

No longer with feelin girl!

I am no longer working with feelin girl as they blocked my account for no reason at all when all I did was share their promos and deals. I am currently purging them from all my platforms. 

They do not even pay correctly nor at all really. Also be warned of their products and their hassle of returns. You may or may not get one. They also do not send the right size.

The customer support is non existent and when you are on the affiliate side trying to contact them, you get thrown around from one email to another and it is really hard to get in touch with them. I waited month after month for a reply and then I found an email online because the contact us barely went through and from there I did get a response however it was not helpful either. 

 I had my account changed from Yearly to Monthly for payments and let me just say, that made no difference because I do not really get paid from them except when they feel like it.

 My pending amount never changed and my paid amount never updated. 

 
It was my one year anniversary also.

uterine artery embolization instead of hysterectomy

 Due to the flu and everything else going around we decided to wait on the hysterectomy however the doctor is going to do a uterine artery embolization first since insurance has not approved of the hysterectomy. 

They are going to biopsy and do exploratory to see what else is going on with it and then months to year later they are going to remove it. 

The uterine artery embolization takes about a week to heal unlike the hysterectomy. The hysterectomy will take 4-6 weeks.