Late night thoughts

 Lately, I have been feeling like I do not have enough time. Everything feels like it is flying by. All I have been doing is sleeping some during the day and waking up at night. I feel like I am everywhere. I feel drained to the point I have no energy to do anything. The things that are happening in the US is really concerning and trying to keep up with everything is difficult. 

My husband has RA (rheumatoid arthritis) and his medicine and doctor appointments will be affected that he really needs because he also has one kidney and we are trying to keep up with it and make sure it is working properly. If they try to cut Medicaid. My son has Autism and he will also be affected. This is really worrisome because we don't know what is going to happen.

 A lot of people do not make enough to survive and the assistance we receive actually helps us out. Inflation is making everything higher so we cannot afford the things we need to survive. Food prices are high, gas prices are getting higher, it is just a mess. 

Trying to juggle the prices of electricity, water, car insurance, rent and other bills is costly. This does not account for emergencies because those are pricey too. A lot of people cannot afford it. The minimum wage has not changed. In places it is still $7.45 in 2025. 

What can you afford in 2025 with $7.45?  Not much of anything. In some places a 2 bedroom house is pushing $900-$1000 in other places it is going for $1500-$3500. This is a lot especially for people that live on a fixed income and cannot afford it nor are they able to pay their bills and live comfortably.

$10-$15 an hour does not even cover most of everything anymore either. You are going to have to budget a lot and make a lot of sacrifices to make ends meet and this often makes it hard because you cannot enjoy life anymore. 

You are currently striving, trying to make things work to make sure that all the bills are paid and you get the things you need to survive. You end up getting side jobs trying to make ends meet and still barely making it and wearing yourself down.

A lot of people could make it if they raised the minimum wage limit to accommodate the inflation and the life of 2025. It is not 1900-2016 anymore. Nothing is cheap and people cannot really afford it. Raising the pay of jobs to $20-$35 will allow people to be able to afford groceries, pay their bills and get what they need. They would no longer depend on assistance and will be able to get what they need but without the minimum being raised then it is a lot harder to pay for the things we all need. 

 Lowering the price of medications will also help because a lot of people are going without their medications because they cannot afford it and they do not have insurance and if they cut medicare and Medicaid well it will be the same affect and hurt a lot of people who need their medications. 

Finding a way for people to be able to pay for everything they need, whether its lowering prices, raising minimum wage and taking care of the people and not taking things away from us that could potentially help us but instead they are not doing anything to help us, doing whatever it is they want at the expense of our tax dollars. 

They could cancel taxes, remove taxes from homes since we already bought them and paid our fair share over the years, and so much more but they rather watch us fall especially us on the lower class while the higher class still gets paid. 

Another thing they could do is help the homeless, help them get a job and remodel abandoned buildings into home for them and let them pay so much but just enough to help keep the place up and keep things going. This would help out a lot and allow them to get on their feet because they are working for it. There are a lot of different things and ways we could help people but its like no one wants to help with it. 

Affiliate marketing

 Hi, if you did not know. I am an affiliate marketer. I have been an affiliate marketer for about 9 years and let me tell you; this job is not easy and is not for the weak. Something they do not tell you about affiliate marketing is that you can go months without being paid. 

You have to find a niche for you that fits you to market. It is always good to get a sample product from the company to see how it is and to test it and review it. Reviewing the product allows you to get to know the quality and how the products you are trying to get out there are.

 It is never a good idea to go into the blind about products because you could be marketing some horrible items and you would never know. It is also a good idea to research about the companies you are trying to join so you know their reputation and if it is going to make or break you. 

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Hybrid Eye care exam| Stanton optical review

 Let me start by saying, I dislike having my eyes redone by a hybrid eye doctor. If you do not know what this means is that the doctor that you go to the eye doctor like normal, you are greeted with the lady that control the machines like the air puffer, the camera, and the one where you have to look in to to see the house. That is normal. Although they did not dilate my eyes to get a good measure they used a camera. Then you are escorted to a room where you see the doctor... A doctor or assistant that is on a TV monitor. 

You are looking into a mirror that has a TV behind you and you are on camera. Everything is remote controlled. They put the goggles on you and you are going through and looking at a mirror that is reflecting a TV screen trying to figure which is better and which you can see. The thing is, this should not happen. You should have an actual doctor there controlling it. Remotely controlling it, you cannot get an actual reading and this can cause a lot of problems in the long run including having to go to a different office to get your eyes redone and spending more money. Luckily, offices should be able to take your new glasses and just put new lenses on them. 

You should not be looking at a mirror into the screen trying to get an accurate reading because the mirror is magnified and this can alter your vision because your vision will be doubled and can cause a lot of things when they put it on the lenses. This causes blurring, magnification and a bunch of other things. 

Just because they are cheap, does not mean they are doing it correctly and this can give you all kinds of wrong readings and can end up damaging your eyes. 

Yes, if you ask, I can see through them however doing every day chores and trying to work has become a hassle including going from light to dark to light. I thought my eyes are trying to adjust but I got another pair of glasses from the exam  and changed out thinking that something could be wrong with the ones I was wearing hoping it does not cause as much as the other ones does but truthfully, This is not right because I am having trouble seeing up close now but when originally my issue was far away. I am not getting dizzy spells and headaches in which I expect that but not this much. 

I could see when they gave me my glasses but now it is a hassle even trying to write this. 

Please, read the reviews and trust your intuition when it comes to your health. 

So I am out of $260 twice because I got an exam and my husband also got an exam and he is also having trouble. 

So now I am going to have to find a place to get another eye exam and see if they can use the frames I got from the first one. 

Another thing is my eyes are foggy and cloudy trying to look around without the glasses and I never had this effect before and truthfully this sucks. Everything is doubled trying to even look down at my keyboard and laptop and because of this, I reverted back to my old glasses and when I take them off, I do not have the fog like I did so the new ones are way way way to strong. 

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Rainbow Sis has an extensive selection of products, including shapewear, yoga equipment, weight loss items, stretch mark creams, waistbands, essential oils, massage oils, oils for men, and more. They also have regular clothing for size small and plus size.

I highly recommend Rainbow Sis for all your yoga needs. Everyone deserves to look and feel good, no matter what! Their shapewear is designed to stay in place, enhancing your shape and making you feel confident and comfortable. You won't even realize you're wearing it. Why not give it a try and see how amazing you can look and feel?

The compression provided by their shapewear is fantastic, effectively smoothing out any areas you're self-conscious about. Their hip-lifting shorts can give you a fuller-looking booty if needed or make an existing one appear even perkier—no more flat-looking behinds! You'll be looking and feeling great in no time.

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Relationships

Some people think just because the sex is good that it is going to keep you in a relationship and honestly that is not the case. There is so much more than sex that is needed in a relationship and if the relationship does not have that then what is the point?

 Love and respect and how you treat each other is what makes you stay or want to stay in a relationship but in the end people get tired of waiting for others to do the right thing and do the things that they need. People get tired of waiting for you to do what you have to. 

A lot of people can peer into the relationship and see how unhappy someone is just by talking to them and the way they hold themselves. If a person is not happy in a relationship, they will end up lying to themselves and others thinking that something is going to work out but then again, it normally doesn't and if it does, then often times it is to late. 

A person will end up getting tired and will end up looking for something or someone better elsewhere. If she has to ask you more than once to do something and you bring up excuses or reasons why you cannot do it, there is someone out there just waiting for a woman to ask for help. There is someone out there ready to do whatever is needed or wanted. 

So if you have a keeper, make sure you do the things she needs to keep her cause once we are tired, we a tired and once we get to the point we no longer want to be in a relationship then no matter how much we love you, we can always go even if it hurts us. 

So be sure to check on them, show them that you are there and care for them. Check on their mental health and just talk to them. That could help out with a lot of things and if they ask you to do something remember, one day anything can happen to them and then when you want to go back and do it you cannot because they are gone.

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If you are a big girl like me, then you know how hard it is to find things such as clothing that fits. Feelin' girl has it all. They have clothes ranging from Small all the way up to 3xl-5xl so you are going to have to look at the listings and  the size charts to be sure that you are getting the right size items. Not all items will fit the same so please be sure you look at the size chart. 

They have all kinds of things from shapewear such as waist trainers, BBL shorts that helps you lift your booty, a lot of other stuff including wedding day stuff, lace stuff, and  active wear, and bras for that booby lift. They also have full body shape wear to help you sculpt that body.  They also have sales on products so check there for deals!  They also have new products if not daily, weekly so check out what they have because you do not want to miss it. 

I highly recommend this company for all your shape-wear needs because for one, you deserve to look and feel good no matter what. The shape-wear holds on to your body and shape and does not move and it will make you look and feel good. It feels like butter on your skin and the buttons, you cannot even feel them when you are sitting down.  You cannot even tell you are wearing it. Why not try it and look and feel the best? 

The compression is great and will pretty much hide your rolls and anything that you are uncomfortable with. They are highly worth it. The booty lifters will give you a booty if you do not have one and will help lift the booty to make it perky if you do have one so no more flapjacks. It will have you looking and feeling nice.

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They do have thong or panty so if you are uncomfortable with thongs, I highly suggest the panties. These are made to help lift you and shape you which is amazing because getting this you will look and feel so great and your confidence will be high. 

The product that you get from Feelingirl is high quality. The Shapewear you get can fit anyone and hold everything no matter your size. They add new things weekly and monthly so check them out! 

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Affiliate Marketing

 Affiliate marketing is not for the weak. It is not easy to make money while affiliate marking and no it will not make you a quick dollar. Some of the contracts terms and agreements you sign is that you only get 10%-20% of the sale and that is a few cents and then some sales may take longer to get.

 A few may be back to back if you are lucky but most times we can go weeks without having a sale it just depends on the product and the way you market. A good way to market is to go to social media platforms and use hashtags on your posts and links. 

Another way is to make a blog post about it using key words and optimize words to be sure that your search pops up on top. This took me forever to know and learn when I first started. You have to be sure you are marketing toward the clientele that will use it because if you do not then you can end up missing the whole market. 

So you are going to have to figure out your niche and the way you are going to market because sometimes things that we have plans for and the way we do things are not going to work and if you don't like the products you are trying to sell then you are not going to have a fun time and end the end you are going to give up with it and be sure you reach out to the companies and get a review unit or sample and if you cannot then try to buy it and review it to get an actual look at the product so you know what you are marketing and so you know how the product is. 

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