Some people change...

My parents decided to turn to partying. My parents rather go get drunk on the weekends or go 10 minutes from my home than to come over and see their grandkids. I never get invited to anything they are doing nor do they come over or even call. Its always I have to go up there to see them but they never come see us. It's like after my grandparents died, they became this. 

Growing up, we never really had a lot. We barely had food for the 4 of us but now that I moved out in 2016, it is like they are living their best life. My little brother, he got a ride off of my fathers credit to college but yet he still lives there with them and does not have to worry or pay them back unlike myself. I bought a house and needed a little extra help to get the rest of the payment but its like I have to pay him back where it feels like my brother is getting by free. 

My brother and I were never taken to the beach by them but they would go every November. They talk about taking us well me because I never went since my brother went with his friend but they never took me ever. My husband before he was my husband took me to the beach because I never got to experience it. I never got to experience a lot of things as a child such as zoo trips, vacation, beach trip or any of that so while everyone that got the cool stories during school of things they did, I didn't get to have that. 

Not to mention he asked us before they sold my grandparents house what would you do with the money if I gave you half and I answered, I would use part for a down payment and the other part I would open a shop and get inventory. 

He gave his great niece and nephews my grandmothers car and truck but what did he give his own kids or his grand children... I got a payment plan every month. I got the loneliness of  feeling like I am nothing worth than money. I got where I feel like I am alone. When I talk, its like I'm not heard, its like whats the point of even bothering? What is the point of even coming around anymore. The feeling of uninvited.

Talking about generational wealth but how do you do that if you are spending it on things you wanted instead of needed and then brag about everything you are getting. 

Money ruins a person if they never had it before. 

Growing up I heard by 18 you are going to get a job and move out and I did that and they become this. I am sick, I am dealing with my health and diseases but it doesn't even matter to them they don't care. They rather go party and do whatever it is they want to do.

Lets not mention how my mother said she would spend time with her grandkids but she doesn't even hold up her words. So, I no longer bring them around them. Favortism is strong and its like I was never that. Why bring my kids around someone who is negative? If they do not know them growing up then that is on them. 

Tiny houses

Trying to buy a house or a mobile home is expensive but it doesn't have to be. These Tiny houses on amazon are really affordable. They do not even look that bad and are actually roomy. There are all kinds of different styles and shapes of them. 

They are also easy to set up and all you need is some land to put it on and the hook ups and you will be great. This is a great thing to buy because you only pay for the house once and don't even need a mortgage on it. 

In a way this is a perfect way to get a home in this day and age because everything is so expensive and all you have to actually pay for would be the land. This would end up freeing up a lot of money through the years because you don't even have to worry about it but once and then be done with it. 

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Truoba| Mordern Housing Plans

Truoba is a place you can go looking for and purchasing housing plans. They have all kinds of different houses and plan ideas to choose from and in my opinion this is a great thing. I honestly love how simple it is to use Truoba.

They also have modern housing plans that are not even that expensive as other plans cost. They even have custom plans and you can pretty much customize everything the way you want which is nice. There are so many different plans and types to choose from such as cozy cottages, to spacious family homes.

They even have ones with upstairs and garages. They even allow you to adjust the rooms sizes and how many rooms you will need so you can pick the best house for you at the right price. In my opinion they are well worth looking at when trying to build a house and looking for housing plans and designs.

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The Gluten Free Mall

 Trying to find gluten free products are hard! A lot of the foods that state are gluten free are not or can also be contaminated with gluten. Gluten free mall makes it so much easier to find products that you need. 

They have so many different gluten free staple that will help better your breakfast lunch and dinner. They have a lot of different gluten free brands and it is not even all that expensive as other stores. They also have Vegan and Vegetarian foods which is nice.

 I personally love Gluten Free Mall because they have so many different foods that I have been looking for that local stores do not carry and this allows me to be sure that I am safe. 

This company is really trustworthy and I trust them with my health and life because there are not a lot of gluten free brands and foods to choose from but they have it all from bread to snacks to pastas, granola, breakfast, nut fee, soy free, corn free, dairy free, frozen and a bunch of other things that people are needing. 

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Credit cards are hard to get!

Credit cards are great for emergencies, and trust me I am in an emergency. Since my cars drive shaft decided to break, we are currently in the middle of purchasing the house we are in on top of paying bills, and being sick, life is starting to take a toll on me. 

I was low on funds trying to search around for loans and way to get a few dollars and then I remember Walmart has a Capitals one card that my husband was on and they sent me preapproval letters in the mail and I decided to open my own up and it was an instant approval for me with no hassle.  

Join Capital one Walmart credit card! It works and it came in handy for me. You can use the card pretty much anywhere that takes Mastercard and the monthly payments are not that bad at all. If you do not use the card you do not have to pay a monthly payment but if you do then you will have to pay and its not even that much a month. 

If you buy a lot at Walmart, I highly suggest this because you get reward points for using the card and you can pay your card using the reward points and it is very much helpful not only that it also boosts your credit. I love this card! Get yours today! 

Pond Water: Brenda Biddix, Rian Milets

Every time you purchase this book it helps Brenda with her journey and be able to get the help and care she needs for her Parkinson's disease. This books is a mysterious book that involves pond water and how it is radioactive. This book is very plot focused and it is a quick read. 

This book is kind of like a goosebumps series or a tales from the cryptic in the dark. This book is a great read and perfect for those who likes mysteries and things that could possibly happen in life.

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Finally getting the help I need

I am just a mom who is trying to make it in the world. I am still dealing with whatever sickness I have that I have been dealing with and trying to get diagnosed in which hopefully soon I can get it diagnosed.

 I have been battling with it since  December 2022 because I was throwing up, nauseated, fatigue, having diarrhea and pain and this was an everyday thing. 

I tried to get it figured out by going to the doctors which didn't know and referred me out to a GI who done colonoscopy and biopsy and did not find anything but diverticula in which they did not diagnose me with it. I got tired and gave up with the doctor due to they were not helping me. I then went to a different doctor in February and he diagnosed me with IBS C. 

He prescribed me Linzess in which it sort of helped but wasn't working the way it was suppose to so, called him back gave him the results and he upped it and that was working also but there was something else going on because when I ate, it was still doing the same thing. I also broke out in hives and itchy all over my body and we did not know what the cause of it was because I am not really allergic to anything except pollen. 

We called him and let him know and he told me to go onto a gluten free diet for 2 weeks and let me tell you something. This has helped me. We finally figured out that I am allergic to gluten and I am getting better now that I have not ate gluten. I can tell if I slip up and eat some because I start getting nauseated and have pain and I get rashes all over my arms and hands.

I feel like I am starting to get my life back but its going slowly. I do have an GI appointment with a different doctor to also figure out what kind of gluten I am allergic to because it can be Rye, Barley, or Wheat but I cut all of those out and it has helped. 

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