The way they start asking you for money, they way you show up for them and they don't for you the support, love and energy you give them but they don't for you. The doubt they give and everything you feel does not feel the same.
Eventually, you will get tired of that feeling and eventually you will cut them off. Once you cut them off and no longer interact with them things will start getting better. You don't grow staying in the same place. You grow when you leave and branch out. You will notice things changing including your mindset but you are going to have to want that change.
Eventually you may find people just like wanting to grow and find people that are going to support you and be there for you.
This is you leveling up and once you do that. It gets better.