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Saturday, January 17, 2026

10 days until my birthday (1/27)

I have 10 days until my 29th birthday on 1/27, and as I approach this next year of my life, I find myself reflecting on how much I’ve already experienced and overcome. It’s easy to focus on what’s still unfinished, but when I really pause, I realize how many accomplishments I carry with me.

I have a loving family that supports me, and I am the parent of three incredible children who bring meaning, purpose, and joy into my life every single day. They remind me of my strength, my resilience, and the kind of love that makes even the hardest moments worth pushing through. I have so much to be proud of and endlessly thankful for.

I know that my healing journey may be long, and there are still chapters ahead that will require patience, courage, and grace. But I’m not walking this road alone. I’m grateful for a compassionate care team that believes in me and helps guide me forward, even when the path feels uncertain or heavy.

I may not have a clear career goal or a defined path laid out for my future, and for a long time I thought that meant I was behind or falling short. Now, I’m learning to release that pressure. Right now, it’s okay not to have everything figured out. Growth doesn’t always follow a straight line, and purpose can exist even in the pause.

As I step into 29, I’m choosing to honor where I am, to give myself credit for how far I’ve come, and to trust that clarity will come in its own time. This season of my life may not look like I once imagined, but it is still meaningful, full, and worthy.

Friday, January 16, 2026

I got a hysteroscopy & Endometrial Ablation

 
Let me tell you, this is going to hurt when you first get it done. It will burn and you will be in pain but the day after surgery it does not hurt as bad anymore.

 You will be throbbing and on pelvic rest until 2 weeks. Honestly this was the best option I went. I got mine done January 14th and I feel way better. I do not feel like my uterus is super heavy anymore nor is there a lot of pressure.

 I could not get the hysterectomy even if I wanted to because my bladder and uterus and probably part of my bowels are fused together with scar tissue and the doctor said it was risky for him to do that and I had a possibility of dying 


They also said of the pain and stuff gets bad again I am going to have a second surgery that includes going through groin area and go into the uterus into blood vessels and stop the blood from going into certain parts that are no longer need. 

I also had issues with my heart rate because when I woke up it was 44/50 and it kept going up and dropping. It was rough but once it came back up I felt better. 

I did not bleed as much with this operation only spotted a little bit here and there at the beginning however the 3rd day is like a light period.

I am expected to have a few periods to help get it out the rest of the way but we are not 100% sure I well have a period or not anymore after that. 

The doctor is also afraid that the Adenomyosis is on the uterus tissue and he could not get it all so we are looking out for that also after recovery. I also have PCOS on top of this that is makes things difficult.

Honestly this surgery was the best thing I could do. I feel way better already and my uterus does not feel heavy like it did unless I have to pee then my bladder makes it heavy. 

I have no incision to worry about the only thing is I am on risk of infection for 2 weeks reason why I got a post op appointment but other than that taking it easy. 

I do not have any incisions to worry about but I do have an infection risk until everything goes back to normal.

Friday, January 9, 2026

Singer Sewing Machine

There’s something special about having a tool that makes creating feel easy, and that’s exactly why I love the Singer sewing machine. It doesn’t matter if you’re fixing a hem, customizing your clothes, or bringing a brand‑new idea to life — this machine keeps up with you. It’s smooth, reliable, and doesn’t fight you while you work. You sit down, thread it, and suddenly you’re in your zone.

What I like most is how it turns small moments into wins. That pair of jeans you thought you had to throw away? Saved. That project you’ve been putting off because it felt too complicated? Done in an afternoon. Singer machines have this way of making you feel capable, even on days when you’re tired or distracted. They’re built for real people who just want something that works.

If you’ve been thinking about getting one, take this as your sign. A Singer sewing machine isn’t just another gadget — it’s a little boost of confidence sitting on your table, ready whenever you are. Your next project is waiting, and this is the perfect way to start.

Free shipping on orders $35+

25% off needles and presser feet! 

Get your Singer Sewing Machine here! 

Singer Beginner Sewing Machine

If you’ve been wanting to learn how to sew but aren’t quite sure where to start, you’re not alone. Beginning a new hobby can feel a little overwhelming, especially when you’re staring at rows of machines and wondering which one is right for you. That’s why Singer makes it easy. Their beginner‑friendly sewing machines are designed with simplicity in mind, giving you all the essential features without the confusion.

Whether you’re dreaming of hemming your own clothes, creating handmade gifts, or just exploring a new creative outlet, a Singer starter machine is the perfect place to begin. They’re reliable, easy to use, and built to help you grow your skills with confidence. Starting your sewing journey doesn’t have to be complicated—Singer gives you the tools to make it fun, approachable, and inspiring.

Get your sewing machine here!



Modlily; Clothing made for everyone!

Modlily has amazing deals on trendy dresses, casual tops, flattering swimwear, cozy hoodies, stylish denim, underwear, bras, shirts, tanktops, dresses, fitness wear, pants, and more. It’s the perfect time to refresh your wardrobe without overspending. 

Their sizes ranges from Small-6xl so they have something for everyone including us plussize women.

Whether you’re shopping for everyday outfits, vacation looks, or seasonal must-haves, Modlily’s sales make fashion affordable and fun. Grab your favorites now before sizes and styles sell out!

 They have all kinds of different things. They have a sale going on Buy 3 get one free in which I love this.  

Change up your wardrobe using this link! Click here



No longer with feelin girl!

I am no longer working with feelin girl as they blocked my account for no reason at all when all I did was share their promos and deals. I am currently purging them from all my platforms. 

They do not even pay correctly nor at all really. Also be warned of their products and their hassle of returns. You may or may not get one. They also do not send the right size.

The customer support is non existent and when you are on the affiliate side trying to contact them, you get thrown around from one email to another and it is really hard to get in touch with them. I waited month after month for a reply and then I found an email online because the contact us barely went through and from there I did get a response however it was not helpful either. 

 I had my account changed from Yearly to Monthly for payments and let me just say, that made no difference because I do not really get paid from them except when they feel like it.

 My pending amount never changed and my paid amount never updated. 
 
It was my one year anniversary also.



Wednesday, January 7, 2026

uterine artery embolization instead of hysterectomy

 Due to the flu and everything else going around we decided to wait on the hysterectomy however the doctor is going to do a uterine artery embolization first since insurance has not approved of the hysterectomy. 

They are going to biopsy and do exploratory to see what else is going on with it and then months to year later they are going to remove it. 

The uterine artery embolization takes about a week to heal unlike the hysterectomy. The hysterectomy will take 4-6 weeks. 


Tuesday, January 6, 2026

Black out coffee

 Black out coffee is coffee made in America! They have all kinds of different roasts to choose from. The most popular flavor right now is Morning Reaper. They have coffee pods and ground coffee beans. Looking for seasonal blends? They also have them. Stop by and look at their different selection of coffee!

This company also supports our troops and veterans! 

Get your day started with black out coffee here!!

Monday, January 5, 2026

More Than Family: Why Staying Connected Matters

According to my 11-year-old cousin, I am a second mom to her and she told her own mother this. She never really goes into detail about why, but honestly, I already know. I accept her for who she is and never belittle her. I’ve made it clear that she is always welcome in my home and that she is never a burden. If she ever needs a place to stay, my door is always open.

I show her love and treat her like my own child. I make sure she knows what it feels like to be loved and supported, and I always try to show her compassion. I do my best to make sure she is okay and has everything she needs.

I pay for her phone every month so she always has a way to communicate if she needs to. She’s also on our family Spotify plan. Her family lives in a gulley, or wooded area, which is very remote—surrounded by trees and far from neighbors. Before she had her own phone, she would use her mom’s phone to talk to friends, but that caused problems. Her mom often couldn’t be reached, and her parents wouldn’t always know where she was when she was out or spending the night at friends.

Her mother wanted to give her a phone for Christmas but I had an extra phone laying around and due to her family situation and the fact that she’s in middle school, I decided to get her a phone. Honestly, it was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Anytime she needs me—day or night—she messages me. If she needs someone to talk to, she reaches out. Knowing she has that support and safety means everything.

With that being said, if you need an extra phone line for a family member, consider Verizon. They offer free phones with the purchase of a plan, which can be a huge help—especially for seniors or other family members who need to stay connected..  Join now!

$25/4 lines and Iphones 17! Click here to get this! 

Verizon Wireless

Choosing the right wireless carrier matters, especially when we rely on our phones every single day. Verizon Wireless is a great option for anyone who wants strong, reliable service.

Verizon is known for having one of the best networks in the U.S., with coverage that works in cities, small towns, and even rural areas. You don’t have to worry about dropped calls or losing service when you’re on the go.

They also offer fast data speeds, making it easy to stream, browse, game, or video chat without constant buffering. Verizon has plans for everyone, whether you’re on a single line or need something for the whole family.

 Another thing that I like is the insurance and warranty on the phones. If your phone begins to wear out and no longer work, you can end up getting a phone for free without having to pay for it because it is covered.

On top of that, Verizon carries a wide selection of phones and devices, plus helpful customer support when you need it. If you’re looking for dependable service, solid plans, and a network you can trust, Verizon Wireless is worth joining!

If you take your AT&T or T-mobile phone bill and scan it in you can scan them and get promotion for discounts.

Join Verizon today! 

Get a free phone here when you get a new line! 

Verizon Phone deals 2026

 I have never had an issue with Verizon. Their phone service is amazing and with me living in an rural area, I have 4-5G with no issues. Verizon is a good phone company and their internet is good also. 

I had it before in and have no complaints. They have a lot of really good deals going on and if I were you I would check them out. If you happen to shop online for Verizon there
are a lot more deals you can get in which I love because sometimes the stores can be hectic.  

Get a $300 Verizon e-Gift card with smartphone purchase and new line on myPlan. Online only

Get free overnight shipping on us. With new smartphone purchase and new line. Online only.


If you happen to want home internet and mobile services bundle together you can save up to $15 a month. Click here to find out more.

Switch to Verizon and get a $200 Verizon gift card when you get a new line. This is stackable and be used more than once so bring the whole family. This is only redeemable online! Click here!

Get a Galaxy S25 on Verizon when you get a new line and select plan.  Click here!

$25 for 4 lines & Iphone17 This offer is ending soon so jump on it! Click here!  (phones available, Iphone 17 pro, Galaxy S25, Galaxy S25plus, iPhone17, Pixel10ProXL, Pixel10)

Get a free phone after using promo credits! click here to check! 

Get a free phone when you get a new line! Click here!

Shop Verizon here ! 

If you are a first responder, nurse, student, teacher, 55+  in Florida, military or you want to bundle internet and phone service, or you are a BYOD, or your work gives you discounts for internet and mobile get these discounts here! 


Friday, January 2, 2026

Core Home Fitness and Workout gear

 Core Home Fitness is a place where you can get your workout equipment. They have adjustable dumbbells, Benches, punching bags, weights, at home gym machines. This is great if you are wanting to work out at home instead of spending money on a gym membership that you may or may not use.

 They also have an at home app that can be used on TVs', mobile, or the web that you can subscribe to for 11.99 a month that can watch the videos that are live and or on demand to help you with your journey and training. 

The programs that they have is strength, boxing, nutrition, yoga and cycling. I love that they have all these options to choose from. You have a 14 day free trail to make sure these are what you want to do.

Get your workout gear here! (New year special $50 discount on dumbbells sale ends January 12th 2026)

Bulldog Yoga and Fitness

 Are you looking for an Online Yoga class with zero intimidations? Check out Bulldog! Bulldog offers three different programs to help you get into shape. 

You can cancel these classes anytime! You can get try the 14 day free trial to make sure this is the right programs for you. The $6.99 programs is  an on demand streaming where you can go through and pick out the videos you want to do. 

The $12.99 premium unlimited plan it gives you the library that has yoga and fitness classes along with meditations. 

The annual $118.99 membership you get the library for yoga and  fitness classes along with the meditation. You also save money with the annual plan. 

Check it out here!

Wanting workout gear? Check here at Garvee

Get workout gear here Corehome fitness!





Thursday, January 1, 2026

Garvee Gym Equipment

Gym memberships are expensive and add up. A lot of people start going to the gym and then stops going because of lack of motivation, social anxiety and life just gets in the way making it so you cannot go as much as you want to. Trust me, we all know the feels along with the new year resolution of wanting to loose weight but life happens. 

It doesn't have to be like that. You can always get equipment to workout at home. Yes it can be expensive but in the end, it saves you years and years worth of gym memberships allowing you to use that money for something else. 

Garvee has all kinds of things from treadmill, exercise bike, rowing machine, squat rack, weight bench, weights, dumbbell and crossover machine!

Get gym equipment here!


Coofandy | men fashion | Worldwide shipping!

Let's start this new year feeling fresh with new clothes from Coofandy. 

Go into the meetings feeling confident and fresh. Coofandy has formal wear and casual wear including athletic wear. Their clothes range from Small way up to 5xl so they are looking out for the plus size guys. 

They have tuxedos, blazers, shirts, hoodies, sweaters, pants, shorts, coats, jackets Cardigans, polos, sets that has pants or shorts and a shirt and so much more! You can change up your whole wardrobe with coofandy.


They also have shoes, belts, and other accessories to help boost your style.


 Coofandy is a company for the fellas and let me tell you they got you covered from you head to your underwear to your feet.  They ship worldwide and internationally to 100 different countries. 

**Coupons end January 15th**

HS-BUY 1 GET 2ND 20% OFF
Coofandy 50% OFF with code COOFANDY50
Coofandy 20% OFF with code COOFANDY20

Stop by and get your clothing today! 

Wednesday, December 31, 2025

2025 Flu | What its like

 

Let me just say this flu is no joke. I got it from my father on Christmas day and he didn't know he had it. It is the super flu in what feels like the flu and covid has had a baby and nothing is helping it. Also RSV is going around and makes it so much worst. There is nothing the hospital can do for this. This is not a bacteria s they cannot give out antibiotics, they will only give cough medications and other things.

You can go to the pharmacy and pick up Oscillococcinum which I was told it works good and there is only 6 dosages in them. You can also  go to your doctor and ask them about Xofluza and it pretty much clears it up within 48 hours. 

 Day one, it starts with an itchy feeling funny throat and it gets more intense when trying to swallow and your sinuses feel like they are stopping up and causing pressure.

 You also can get headaches with this and become light headed. You can also have this dry cough that gets annoying and will keep coming with force and you start taking cold meds to prep for it so it does not get as bad. Mouth will also become dry so sucking on hard candy to help it not be so dry.

 Day two, you have a little bit of energy, not so much but you are hot, cold, hot, cold break like 4 fevers, wake up to everything soaked from breaking fevers everything feels manageable but then you will slowly go back to everything aching and hurting and every sneeze sent electricity down my right arm and made it feel like it was going to be ripped off. 

The cough becomes a little wet and your nose will run constantly. Day three feels like a repeat of day two but day four it feels like you are getting better and get a little more strength but the meds I was taking no longer feels like they are working and everything became tasteless and nasty.

 I also have some chest pains but I always had chest pains and it does not feel like pneumonia. I also had to take my tongue ring out because with this, you can get mouth sores and the tongue ring irritated the roof of my mouth with the sore.

 However that day five in which I am on day five while writing this and I felt like I had energy when I first woke up and now everything hurts. My right arm is tingling, my nose is runny, I have this cough. My ear is hurting me but my throat feels fine. It felt fine also on day three. I feel like I am slowly going to get better but my energy is not there. 

I have noticed the Tylenol cold and flu is not working. I also noticed the Alka-Seltzer plus cold and flu helped a little but what worked the best was the off brand Nighttime severe cold and flu relief but it is taking a little longer to work. I also take ibuprofen like 20 minutes later to help with the pain and the fever because it is taking a little bit of time to help with that. 

I also say be sure to drink teas, warm liquids, stay hydrated and rest because this is no joke. It is that bad and no it does not feel like your normal flu and cold. There are two flus going around Flu A and Flu B and both are as bad as the other. 

Also you can end up having vomiting and diarrhea. The vomiting will feel like it is coming from your back and it will pull everything you have. 

Hospitals are full and are going to max compacity so be mindful going out here and if you are sick, stay home. People are loosing their lives due to flu complications. 

Wash hands and mask up!  

They are saying this lasts 6-7 days but some people have had it for weeks. I am hoping it does not last much longer because I am suppose to have a hysterectomy January 14th.  

New Year’s Eve Sales Are Here

So many places are offering amazing discounts—some up to 50%, 70%, even 80% off! It’s the perfect time to bring in the New Year with new clothes, furniture, electronics, and so much more. Just go check them out and grab the best deals while they last!

Here’s a great list of places to start your sale shopping:

 FOOD AND DRINKS

 CLOTHING, FASHION, SHAPEWEAR, SMELL GOODS AND MORE

 HOME DECOR AND MORE

KIDS AND BABIES 

TRAVELING

    OUTDOOR SPORTS

    GAMING KEYS AND GEAR 

    SOFTWARE  

     RANDOM


    Monday, December 29, 2025

    Try something new this new years! 2026

    It’s almost 2026, and honestly, the age-old tradition of staying inside the house every year is starting to feel a little worn out. Why not make this New Year one you’ll never forget? Instead of watching the clock from the couch, imagine creating real memories with your family — the kind you’ll talk about for years to come.

    This year could be the year you do something different. Why not travel to a new country, explore a new city, or finally take that vacation you’ve been putting off? From sightseeing and exploring local culture to trying new foods and experiencing breathtaking views, there are so many unforgettable ways to ring in the New Year.

    Whether it’s a big adventure or a simple getaway, stepping outside your comfort zone can turn an ordinary holiday into something truly special. New Year’s isn’t just about a date on the calendar — it’s about experiences, connection, and memories that last far longer than midnight fireworks.

    Isango - tours, sightseeing and more!

    Travel up  - hotel bookings, flights and more

    Trip - Low price flights 

    Viator| Trip advisor| Travel, sightseeing, tours and more!


    Sunday, December 28, 2025

    The flu


    It has been three days after Christmas and my family has the flu. This was an unexpected thing. We all just woke up the next day with our throats feeling funny, sneezing, nasal congestion and sinus pressure which then moved to body aches, chills, fevers, and all the things that relates with the flu.

     My father had the flu first and then spread it to everyone. No one knew he was sick until my mom rushed him to the urgent care yesterday and he has been confirmed with the flu. We have been resting, drinking liquids trying to stay hydrated and eating when we can to help our bodies fight this off.


    Friday, December 26, 2025

    Knowing When to Stop Giving

    I want to help, but I’ve learned that sometimes you have to admit when you can’t anymore. For most of 2025, I poured my time, energy, and heart into helping other people. I did it because I cared and because I believed that being there for others mattered. But eventually, I reached a point where I had nothing left to give.

    There comes a moment when helping turns into self-neglect. When the same people only take, expect sympathy, and never make changes, it slowly drains you. I spent countless hours trying to support others, offering what I could, while pushing my own needs aside. I felt guilty for even thinking about stepping back.

    But I’ve realized that constantly feeling bad for others doesn’t help anyone—especially when it costs you your own well-being. Giving is important, but so are boundaries. You can be a caring person and still choose yourself.

    I gave what I could give. Now it’s time to focus on myself, my goals, and the things I need to move forward. And that doesn’t make me selfish—it makes me human.


    10 days until my birthday (1/27)

    I have 10 days until my 29th birthday on 1/27, and as I approach this next year of my life, I find myself reflecting on how much I’ve alread...