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  One thing, I am suffering with is Insomnia. With all of the other health issues and complications I have, insomnia is one of the things that came to play. I have tried everything from sleeping pills to melatonin to help me get some sleep and it was like my body was fighting it off. Nothing I did was working until I stumbled upon these   Nartrol sleep and restore capsules . These capsules took about two days to officially get in my system to work but after that they made me feel relaxed while trying to sleep. These are very helpful and gives me the magnesium that I need to get through my days.  You are suppose to take these 30 minutes before trying to sleep and I recommend doing this but do it while you are in bed.  I say this because with me, if I do it before bed and I am up moving around its like my body is not going to rest because it is doing stuff or in motion and I found out if I take it before bed while in bed it gives me no choice but to rest and not fight ...

One thing I can tell you is do not fall for the follow for follow scam. It does not work. People will end up in unfollowing you and then you are stuck still sitting at the same number your trying to grow from.  This ends up growing your following list and subscribing list instead of your followers.  Trust me trying to grow yourself sucks especially when you are doing it organically but you are wanting fans, you are wanting viewers and chatters along with returning people. You do not want an empty viewer seat, no chats or anything like that.   Doing this does not boost your watch hours, or give you the views that you are wanting. You want someone that is going to actually engage with your content not just another number. You want to actually find people that supports  you and is for you and doing sub for sub or follow for follow will not do that.  You are going to have to network and get your content out there. Not all the content you make is going to make i...

What if, when a person dies, they don’t cross over into some distant, glowing afterlife—but instead wake up in a place that looks exactly like the world they just left? Same streets. Same houses. Same sky. No one tells them they’ve died. No bright light. No angels. Just the same world, untouched, where time keeps moving but something feels... off. It’s a strange thought, but it keeps coming back to me. 👻 Spirits in Limbo: Why Are They Still Here? If you’ve ever heard about haunted places, you’ll know this: a lot of them are said to be filled with spirits who don’t know they’ve passed on. They stay behind, repeating the same routines. Some are confused, some are waiting. But waiting for what? That’s the part that doesn’t make sense to me. If the soul is something beyond our body—if it’s conscious, aware, and intelligent—then why would it be trapped in limbo like a lost tourist with no map? Why would it not know it’s dead? Maybe it’s because this "other side" looks too much li...

  A little about me, I am a college dropout due to not having $7000 to finish my courses.  I did complete medical coding and billing certificate though but I was trying to go back and finish my BS: medical administration degree and I only have 6 courses left but due to funding I could not complete it.  I am a mother of three and one has autism the other one we suspect has ADHD and a touch of autism but unsure yet.  I have gastro diseases such as chronic Gerd, and suspected of having microscopic colitis, diverticulitis and a few others that we are trying to diagnose. It could be missed diagnosed somewhere down the line.  The symptoms were nausea, vomiting and diarrhea and pain on the lower left abdomen for about 3 years. It has now blossomed into something so much more that causes me pain every time I eat along with making me nauseated. I also suffer with PCOS and now throbbing pains in my legs when I am trying to rest which leads to insomnia.  I go in and o...

I wrote this book. In the middle of the night due to having insomnia due to having medical issues that does not allow me to sleep. This book kept me busy and brainstorming. This book is available on Amazon as eBook or Paperback ! The book is also on Lulu in hardcover form . By reading or sharing this book, you're not only diving into an eerie and unforgettable narrative — you're helping me access vital medical treatments and support.  Every purchase makes a difference! This book is also great for the fall season that is coming! The second book is also in the making and I am aiming to release it around August- September!  Book two starts where book one ends! Summary: In a world where memory blurs and transformation is inevitable, The Hallow Veil unravels the story of souls caught between what was and what could be. Through eerie landscapes steeped in folklore and haunted symbolism, a grieving protagonist confronts the emotional residue of loss, identity, and longing. Scarred m...

 No one tells you how bad PCOS really is and can get. No one tells you how it doesn't matter what you eat you will be bloated and gain weight out of no where.  No one even talks about how your hair will thin and fall out and your nails may become brittle. No one tells you how your hormones are going to be thrown off, your periods will be off days, weeks, months and even years. You can end up with acne and oily skin.    No one tells you about the unwanted body hair, facial hair and all the things you end up going through. The pain, the insomnia, the mood swings along with craving sugar and wanting sugar all the time.  No one also talks about just because your reproductive hormones are out of whack it is going to make everything in your body out of whack and it is going to end up putting you down.  PCOS takes a mental toll on you and can make you have anxiety, and depression and a lot of other things and it is totally okay if you have this.   H...

Hey everyone! I don’t know about you, but life gets crazy sometimes, and I forget to take care of me. Lately, I’ve been trying to make self-care a real thing in my life — not just some idea I read about online. So here are five simple things I do every day that honestly help boost my mood and make me feel a little more balanced. Maybe they’ll help you too! 1. Take a Minute in the Morning to Just Breathe I try to spend at least five minutes in the morning just sitting quietly — no phone, no distractions. Sometimes I do some deep breaths, sometimes I just sip my coffee slowly. It helps me start the day on a calmer note instead of jumping straight into chaos. 2. Drink More Water (I’m Still Working on This) Hydration is something I’ve always struggled with, but I’m trying to drink more water throughout the day. It really does make a difference for my skin and energy. I even add lemon sometimes to make it more interesting! 3. Skincare That Feels Like a Little Treat I don’t do anything fancy...

 I wrote a new book and it is out now! It is called The Hallow Veil! Book two is coming soon!  There are stories that entertain. And then there are stories that linger — curling around your thoughts like mist, long after the final page. The Hallow Veil lives in that second category. This is not a tale of monsters in the dark. It’s about the veil itself: the thin membrane between what’s real and what we almost believe. It explores themes of identity, transformation, and perception through a world that feels both hauntingly familiar and chillingly unreal. This book is a fantasy book about a town where people goes missing and no one knows.  In crafting The Hallow Veil , I wanted readers to feel disoriented — in the best way. A place where mirrors resist reflection, where memory warps, and where silence carries weight. It’s a surreal dive into what it means to be seen… and what’s left behind when you aren’t. Step into the shadows - buy the book here!  https://amzn.t...

 If I known what I knew then, I would move differently. I would of never settled and I would of done better. It is to the point I am tired of trying. I am tired of asking and damn well near begging for better. We never go on family vacations anymore.  We never get to do anything. You always come up with some kind of excuse and I would always keep feeding into it. You're excuses have all but ran dry. It is to the point I am no longer happy anymore. You keep coming up with excuses one after another after another hoping, I would stop talking about it or change the subject. You make excuses to the point I am sick of hearing them.  There is no reason at your grown age you keep lying. There is no reason at your grown age you trying to "comfort" with lies and then make it seem like everyone else is what you say they are when you pretty much are lying to me.  The only time we actually spend together when you're not working is when you are asleep and I say up all-night trying...

 It's 2025. A lot of things changed since the 1900s. Back then it was easy to get a date. It was easy to talk to people and them not lie to you.  Another thing is don't rush it and actually get to know the person. Take it slow and be sure they are the one. In today's world, it's one story after another. It's bad enough women, not all of us but a few expects the most from men. I'm not saying nothing but boundaries and priorities but there should be a limit. If a man who seems interested in you and actually is trying to keep a conversation and actually showing you the attention you want and they wake up talking to you and they fall asleep talking to you and they are pretty much talking to you about everything including how they feel and they are being open with you then you should be open and honest with them.  He is not your door mat, he is not your money bag or piggy bank. If you are just using him just because and you get mad and bitter when he decides to stop ...

  Sometimes, we encounter people in our lives and they end up making a mark on us. No matter how they do us or what they say we always will forgive them and try to be there for them even though they are never really there for us.  It is like when we try to go no contact, when we try to distance ourself from them, unfriend them, block them or just do whatever it is to pretty much get away from them its like we can't let them go.  We somehow wind up back in the area where we were once before and we pretty much try and try again but we end up adding them back, trying to patch things up and keep rekindling the fire because we are lonely.  I know the feels. I know exactly what it is like to get rid of people who no longer serve a purpose to me but end up keep coming back days, months and even years because you want to catch up and feel like there's a piece of us missing or just because you need or want someone to talk to. When in reality, if we get past the sinking lonely...

With recent events happening in the world it has became kind of worrisome with everything. My family is a low income family with three kids. My husband is on Humira for his rheumatoid arthritis and he has been diagnosed with gout.  My husband also has to go back to the rheumatologist every two to three month to make sure his labs are good and everything is functioning okay.    He also was only born with one kidney and he hangs out between stage 2 and stage 3 kidney disease in which his body cannot process everything correctly and it gets to the point sometimes he has to go to the hospital to get treatment and fluids to help his kidney filter things out and raise his GFR levels in which this is kind of scary sometimes. He is currently on Medicaid and because of this we do not have to worry about his medications.  It is hard on him somedays and he struggles a lot but that does not stop him. He hurts all over his body and his arms, elbows, knees, feet and hands swe...

 Jealousy and Envy are the two most blockers in the world. Being jealous of something that a person has or can get can end up allowing you to miss something that you were suppose to have.  Being angry or upset because a person has something will not allow you to grow and get what you need. You never know what a person has went through nor their journey or the things they had to go through to get where they are today.  Life is hard and life always will knock you down to the point you feel like giving up and not go anymore and when you start looking around, you can start to notice that people have different things.  A lot of people are getting the things you dreamed of and it feels like you are never going to get it and you keep working hard towards it and all kinds of things starts happening and you feel like you are loosing grip and the more you look around and the more you see someone else getting something new or someone else getting things before you and it starts...

 Therapy for some are many different things. Therapy allows you to open up and talk about your feelings pretty much anyway you can, want to or feel.  My therapy is blogging and writing about how I feel, things bothering me and what is on my mind.  Another therapy for me is anything that heals my inner child and allows me to grow and be better then my parents were.  I told them growing up that I need therapy, I have a lack of expressing how I feel and it was just blown off. They said I did not need therapy so from there, I decide to bottle up every little bit of emotion that I had and I ended up having this rage and anger and it was like they never cared nor listened to what I needed or want but instead they favored my brother and gave him everything and anything he wanted and I ended up having to cope on my own and figure out how to juggle and manage everything.  I also enjoy photography but due to having to sale my gear to help fund the house we live in, I neve...

One thing I cannot stand is a person who thinks they are better than everyone and bragging about the things that they have or got. A person I have for this example is my father. Growing up, we did not have much.  We sometimes did not have enough food on the table growing up and now that my grandmother and grandfather died, my dad has money.  It was not bad enough he asked my brother and I what we would do if he split it as if he was actually going to do so but no he did not. It was silly me thinking he would actually split it but no he kept it all to himself.  My father growing up, was not the person that he is today. He did not brag about buying new cars, this that the other things that he buys. The person that I knew did not act brand new because he got money.  He quit his main job, a job where he had benefits and went working for a farm and now he is trying to get back to his main job so he can have days off and benefits. He already has over 7 cars in the yard. 2 ...

 MLM is a scam and if  you do not know what it is it's multi-level marketing also known as a pyramid scheme. Affiliate marketing is pretty much an MLM and a lot of people do not realize it.   They always market affiliate marketing as the best thing to do and an easy way to make cash when in reality you are making the business money and promoting them for free while you are making either nothing or pennies on a dollar.  It's like when applying to these companies, why am I needed if they are making a lot of money what can I do differently to help the company?  If there are millions of people promoting them and you see their ads everywhere including though google AdSense how can I help them?  That's the thing, companies pays other companies like google to promote their products and ads. They pay Facebook and other places to promote.  So it is like they are using you because you may need the money to get you to promote for them while they sit there st...

 Commission Junction is one of the worst platforms that you could affiliate market for!  CJ is a third party platform where businesses goes and you can have all your affiliate links and other things you need to promote there.  I personally highly recommend that you never use CJ and run from it. It is nothing but trouble. For starters when you get links from the company, it has trackers in it and it makes them look fake.  It will not say the websites name or anything like that it will say whatever tracker front in on it. A lot of people are not getting paid from CJ either just like a few affiliate marketing places.  CJ reminds me of Amazon because if you don't meet their requirements then they will deactivate you and truthfully it gets annoying and having to go back in and reactivate everything is time consuming. Working with commission junction since 2017,  I have never gotten paid out, I only made cents and never made it to the threshold. I never even made...