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 I have been an affiliate marketer for about 9 years now and let me tell you, there are a lot of scams out here. If you do not believe me, I have been scammed more than once working with companies.  Companies like Haute Flair and when trying to request the money that I have earned, nothing. It has been over 3 years and at this point I just kissed it goodbye. I even emailed multiple times asking about it and there is no answer.  It is like all they actually care about is making money and getting their website promoted. They do not care about paying their ambassadors or affiliate at all.  It is like we do not exist to them they only see it as free promotion. That is one thing that I dislike about doing affiliate marketing sometimes is that people think that it is going to be easy to affiliate market but in the long run it is really hard work to make a few dollars. Sometimes it is not even dollars it is cents.  A lot of time is spent in marketing and promoting. It ...

 Let me just say, AdSense does not pay like everyone think that they do. Just because you get a lot of views on your blog does not mean you are going to get paid. AdSense does not pay per view. AdSense only pays per click on the ads and some ads are a nice amount of cents and other ads are only one cent so it ranges depending on the brand. Another thing about AdSense is that it is hard to get.  You have to jump through a lot of hoops for it and in the end it is not really worth it especially if you are creating content like this and blogs. It is however worth it when you are partnered on YouTube but then again trying to get partnered is so hard that it takes years on top of years.  We have been trying since 2016 but have yet met any of the requirements to even get half partnered. We are lacking the 500-1000 subs and the watch hours in which I know we are not the only ones. There are a lot of people struggling in the same boat trying to make something out of nothing....

 Hi everyone, my reviews have their own blog! This blog is just for my writing and other things. I review house hold items and everyday use items to help you know how they are and if they are worth it before you waste your money on it.  Check out my reviews here!

Traveling is always an adventure. Whether you're hopping across the country or jetting off to a brand-new part of the world, the journey itself is full of discovery. But let’s be honest—planning that trip? That’s a whole adventure on its own. Sometimes the hardest part is knowing where to start. With so many destinations and booking options out there, it can feel overwhelming. I usually check Google reviews to get a sense of what’s available and how others experienced a place. But occasionally, the info is limited, outdated, or just not very helpful. That’s when I turn to curated travel platforms like Travel up , Trip , Isango . These sites give me a much clearer idea of what a city or destination truly has to offer—from hidden gems and must-see landmarks to guided tours and seasonal activities I wouldn’t have known about otherwise. I love that they provide everything in one place—it takes the guesswork out of planning. If you are looking for a Flight or to book a hotel, sights...

 Online personas, will not always allow you to see how a person is. An online persona will only show you how a person is online and how they want you to see them. In real life often times they are not the way they are online.  A lot of online people hides a lot of things and who they are and how they act. Trusting people online is often risky because you do not know them. I am not saying don't make friends online but take sometime to get to know them.  It is even riskier if you date a person online because you really truly do not know them nor who they actually are. Yeah, they may video chat with you or call you but you do not know if they have a whole family behind them nor do you know if they are lying to you.  A person who makes excuses of why they cannot call you often times they do not want to or have something hidden. It is rare for them to be truthful and actually tell the truth.  A person will make all kinds of excuses of why they cannot see you also. Th...

Anxiety? Yeah me too! Everyone gets anxiety and it sucks. A lot of people do not know how much one person may struggle with everyday tasks. Anxiety is not something you can just get over. It is not just something that magically goes away. It is something that lives with you. It is the not being able to speak. The nervous of trying to say something but afraid of the backlash or what someone is going to say. It is the panic attacks, the seen the unseen. It's the nervously shaking when things don't go as plan. The what ifs the constant worrying how something will go.  It's the over reacting, the involuntary movements and shaking.  The pacing back and forth. The reinsurance that things are okay, that no one is mad. Its the talking in public but getting sweaty hands all while just trying to order food or just talking to someone you do not know.  Being bullied in my childhood has caused some of this but that is not the major factors. Being afraid of speaking out due to your par...

  One of the hardest platforms to affiliate market for is Amazon and Commission junction. I say this because it is hard trying to figure out things to market and a lot of people are marketing them so its competition trying to make sure you are being seen. Commission Junction is a third party platform where you can apply to stores and sites and become an affiliate marketer with them if you are chosen.  This is the easy part. The hard part is trying to share the links because they do not show up as in the store. Commission junction has their own tracker ID's on them and it makes it harder to sale because people are not going to look at it as a real site.  They are going to think it is a scam site so you have to go out of you way making a short link for it using some kind of short link maker and hope it keeps your tracker in it. I personally write blog post and hyper link the links into it that way no one can tell that its from a third party site or from whatever I am trying...

The mind is a complex and mysterious place, a maze of shifting thoughts and tangled emotions. It drifts in circles, flirting with possibilities, dancing with doubts.  Often, it resists resolution, preferring instead to entertain contradiction. There’s a strange comfort in hesitation, a thrill in being provoked—because in those uncertain moments, the mind is most alive, exploring the edge of what could be. But then, something changes. A flicker of clarity appears. The noise quiets. A decision emerges—not always loudly, but with undeniable weight. And once the mind is made up, that choice takes root.  It stands, weathered and unmoving. It matters less which door you choose—because whichever one you walk through, something is going to bloom. A truth. A lesson. A version of you that didn’t exist before. Don’t wait too long. Time has a way of narrowing the paths before us. What once felt wide and full of promise begins to fade into a single thread. And there you are, standing sti...

  Let me just say, I have been an affiliate marketer for about 8 years and there are a ton of ups and downs. For starters, affiliate marketing is over saturated and so many people are doing it because it is quick and easy cash sometimes.  If you happen to get on with Amazon, here is a warning. You only get 180 days to make three qualifying sales and if you fail to do that they kick you out of the program in which you are going to end up reapplying to and trust me, Amazon is a hard platform to market for because everyone is doing it and it is popular.  There are going to be a lot of companies that will not accept you because you do not meet their criteria and it is nothing against you. This is just the company and looking for a certain target and demographic.  Affiliate marketing is really hard when you do not have the following because you are going to have to work extremely hard to try to promote and give people reasons why they need the product and or get it and tr...

 My first camera ever was the Canon Rebel t7 and if you ever was thinking about getting into photography, I highly recommend this one.  This camera was simple to use and took amazing pictures. I had no issues with this camera and I honestly regret having to sale it. This camera had different settings for each type of photography and pretty much captured every moment I wanted.   My favorite thing to do was to go around and take nature photography because nature never stays the same and it is forever changing. No moment can be captured more than once. There will always be something changing into it.  It has different modes ranging from sports, to portrait, close up, food, night portrait, landscape, creative auto, flash, scene intelligent auto and movie. This camera was made to capture any type of moment no matter what it is. You can record with this camera also.  Get a Canon Rebel T7 here! 

 Living in a home that was built in 1975 that an slum lord owned sucks. If you did not know, last year we bought the house we were renting for about 10 years. The original owner was pretty much a slum lord and refused to pretty much take care and fix anything.  He then sold it to a guy who actually tried to fix it and keep it up. The guy then sold it to us and we bought it due to fear and being a low income household with kids and almost homeless that could not find anything affordable and cheaper than were we lived for 10 years. It took a lot to get the rest of the money needed to buy it but we did. Let me just say, the first owner we let him know about a leak and then he got mad and refused to fix it and so the addon to the house has have new drywall because the rain and water over the years has washed it out on one side. All that is needed is insulation and drywall. There was also a hole in the back yard that was sinking and he refuse to fix it also.  The second guy ac...

 My health in 2020-2024 was rocky. I was diagnosed with PCOS and ovarian contusion in which my OBGYN just brushed off the contusion part when I went to her. It took this year to be told oh yeah it was twisted. I have suffered with nausea, vomiting, pain, diarrhea, fatigue, and appetite loss all through out them years and it never really got better but it went into remission.  I even had an colonoscopy and biopsy and endoscopy done to make sure everything was good in which they found diverticulitis, eternal hemorrhoids and colitis. I ended up going on without relief and help. I was given bentyl and nausea medication along with ibuprofen, Tylenol and other things I was given by my doctors including antibiotic medications. I was even eating raw ginger to help with my nausea and it actually helped.  I also broke out in hives and not sure what is causing it or why it is happening. My GI told me to start taking probiotic and I started to take digestive enzymes and that also he...

If you do not have one, I highly suggest you get one. These water bottles are so worth it. If you are looking for a good deal on a cirkul, I would highly go to Amazon because their water bottle with two different kinds of flavors which is a starter kit . These are cheaper than going to Walmart because it costed about $20 dollars. There are different kinds of flavors you can get from iced coffee, lemonades , Tea and other flavors. My favorite flavor is Honey Crisp Apple because it actually tastes like fresh crispy apples that you just pulled off a tree. It is cheap to buy bundles then it is buying singles to me. Bundles allows me to have different flavors. These pods can last up to 2 weeks but its recommended that you use them within 10 days after opening. If the flavor is to strong, you can adjust the level so that the flavor gets countered by water and allows you to tone it down. If you need a stand for your carts, you can get one here ! This one holds 4 at a time. I love the Crikul...

  A person who waits in and for you is a loyal person but eventually they get tired of waiting on you to do right and the decide to no longer be in your corner waiting for you and all of the sudden they are the bad person. A person is going going to give you so many chances and try to help you so many times until they give up.  You cannot do a person any kind of way and expect them to still be there with open arms just waiting on you to return. Life is to short to be waiting on a person to get it together and wasting their time, love, resources, empathy, sympathy and anything else they give trying to get you to do right.  If it keeps reoccurring then the care that they have and gave is nonexistent. It gets tiring caring when the same things keep happening over and over and they give the same excuse one after another day after day and nothing changes.  I'm Sorry can only run its course for so long and being okay with it lasts only so long. I'm sorry is an excuse for s...

I wanted a friend that was cool with everything that I love. I wanted a friend that understands me for me and that would actually show up like a friend. I no longer have friends around me. I do not have a best friend anymore ever since I got married and moved off. I want a friend that actually sticks by me and does not use me like my said best friend would and I thought I found them but boy I was wrong.  Being a mother of 3 takes my time and it is like I do not have time for anything anymore. I also am sick on top of everything and it feels like a challenge. Three years ago, I was a twitch streamer going around helping little streamers and I found this person I thought was going to be a pretty cool dude and honestly he was until recently. Although he is on the other side of the world a lot of things don't make sense when he says it and it is a lot of drama. First let me just say don't trust everyone that you meet because there are some shady people out there.  Everything was g...

  Fathers day is coming up and like most, we do not know what to get our husbands and fathers. I always try to get what they need but what if they do not need anything?  Mine never wants anything. He tells me I have all I need and want and its like I still want to give him something in which I always do.  My husbands birthday is June 13th and its like what do I get you? We celebrate both days on his birthday.  If you are stuck on what to give him this year, check out some of the links below!  Xtuf Deck Shoes and Work boots for Women and Men  CrosMan Airsoft   Ravin Crossbow and Arrows and Gear  Rapala Fishing knives, and Fishing Gear Pyramydair Airsoft guns  Kings Camo Hunting clothing  Round Gear Holsters and more Mowrator RC Mowers  (Use discount code lovely124 for 5% off)  Kinguin cheap gaming keys Fanatical Gaming bundles and software cheap  IBUYPOWER ( Customize and prebuilt pcs and laptops) Gamvio Greenmangaming...

This movie was good! There is so much understanding in this movie and it pretty much ties everything together on why things happened the way it did. There are a lot of events in this movie and personally it was worth the watch. If you cannot handle the gore then this may not be for you because this one is a little worst then the other ones. The plot in this one allows you to understand the whole movie franchise and personally it was a lot to take in. It literally took out the bloodline of families that escaped death. The grandmother pretty much saved everyone in her family and other families by escaping death and warning them of an even that she seen happening. In the long run, death decided to pick people off one by one until it got to her bloodline and then it tried taking them all at once. The daughter of the grandmother seen it also and was warning her family and kept them safe as long as she could but in the end, it did not matter. This movie is worth the watch! Watch it here! Re...

  Let me start by saying, most of the things you can buy on tiktok shop is on Amazon , Temu, Ali express, CJ Dropshipping and a few other places.  A lot of the products from TikTok are over charged and cost way more when you could of bought it some place else and got a refund.  Lets not forget the lithium battery products are blowing up left and right and causing damages on a lot of things. Things on there are cheaply made and then charged an outrageous price on some things. The shipping is also expensive on products.  Yes some of the things on there are alright and cheap but some are not.  Another thing is that those who buy or get a sample and are in the creator program or the affiliate program, they are forced to do a review even if they do not have the product, they still have to make a video. If they do not then their page will get a strike and they could loose it. This is not worth it to me and to be honest, tiktok is kind of acting funny on a lot of thing...

 The pain, the nausea, the vomiting, the diarrhea has all came back. I have been dealing with this for about 4 days now. I was first dealing with this for about 3 years and then last year, it was not that bad. It was an off and on kind of thing and now it came back and its pretty much coming and going.  Some days are harder than others. This time, I am also hurting in my chest but when going to the hospital for the chest pain, they will say its just stress. My doctors still do not know what is causing it nor what caused it to begin with. I went to primaries, I went to GI and neither of them have a diagnose for it.  It is like a never ending kind of thing in. Some nights I end up having to take Bentyl just so I can sleep because it gets so bad. The pain is like a squeezing kind of pain. Sometimes its a twisting kind also in which it can get bad.  The doctor would always tell me to eat small portions of meals in which that is what I do, when I can eat but its like I ha...