The way they treat you and acts towards you shows a lot. If they show you love, they won't get frustrated towards you, stands with you through everything and doesn't abuse you in anyway. No matter how hard it gets they will always be there to support you and never get mad and try to hurt you.
They won't pretend and switch up on you and blame everything on you. If they treat you bad, you deserve so much better. They will try to make you feel they are the only one in the world and try to turn you against not only everyone else but yourself also and make you feel insecure but in the long run it is not healthy and you are going to have to find someone else who will love you for you and not make you feel like no one else loves you.
Those that have insecure will attempt to take you away from all your friends and make you feel like they are the only ones. This is not true and once you get tired of this feeling or you start to notice it you will end up putting your foot down and trust me, they aren't going to change, they don't want to change for you. They will always do it for someone else but not you and I don't know why they do this but it happens but karma is rough and it comes back.
If they do this, they don't love you they only want to use you and control you. You do not need someone who treats you horribly and uses you and just over all abusive
You have to put yourself, your love, your life, your interest first. Get the things you want done first. Find someone who supports this and will lift you up because if you are with someone who doesn't you will end up being miserable and disappointed.
